Oh sun, where have you gone?

I really enjoy getting questions from you guys; seriously I do. So don't be afraid to keep them coming.

I had this comment/questions from Aimee: Wow shocked at the marriage news! Congrats & good luck. I'm curious about how many years were in between your break-up and getting married? Did you stay in touch-off and on during this time? Did he care about you and Hockey Guy (his old roomie?)



This question took me a little off guard because you know what... I didn't really know the answer off the top of my head. So Mr. Right #1 and I dated from 05-07 (give or take a few months but that's a pretty fair guess) from the breakup in 07-09 we talked once in a while mostly at birthdays but I was SO genuinely hurt by him and what he did that I wanted nothing to do with him. I know you're probably wondering why I ended up with him if he hurt me so bad; but people change and I hurt him in a way as well. At the start of 2010 I was being a major fuck up and he got wind of it. Around this time, he broke up with the slut bag that he ruined our relationship for... I had a random blocked number call me and to my suprise it was him. Reluctantly I got coffee with him when he was in town and the coffee cleared the air. We didn't talk for a while again until he wanted to talk some more and I went to his hotel room (no sex with the ex) and I remembered a few things that I loved about it. It's fucked up and I'll be the first to admit that, but we just work. The first time we dated we were really young I'm talking 20. I don't know the average age of you guys (the readers) but the things that you want when you're 20 and the way you are when you're 20 are different than 5 years later. I'm still a complete fuck up, I do what I want when I want and up until we hit Vegas I did who I wanted as well. So, to answer the first question of the multi part question we dated from 05-07, then hooked back up in mid 2010 and fucked around on and off... I started to kind of want to be a thing again around umm Thanksgiving? Then we got married right after New Years. It's been an ongoing hate/love affair.


Did he care about me and his room mate? That's a great question... I don't know if he did or didn't if he did he never mentioned it. And if he had, I would have ripped him the fuck apart... after what he did to me he reserved NO right to have an opinion on what I did or who I did. Also, complete side note a lot of the time the players don't really care about who has fucked who. Two examples: Back when I was dating Mr. Right #2 (who I promise I'll give you a few stories about in the coming posts) there was a girl on the team who met a player at the bar... slept with him, went on ehhh 2 more dates? Then met his roomie, slept with HIM and hit it off- and the rest was history. They got married this past summer and she's newly pregnant! Fate works in weird ways eh? Another example would be the puck bunny; the girl who had slept with literally every player on the team for the past 3 seasons. The guys slept with her because it was such a fucking joke... I remember one night at a team party one of the guys had her come over and she slept with 3 different players one after the other. They all knew and no one cared. Girl had no problem with checking her self respect at the door and she was the laughing stock of the team... Wrapping it up- I don't know if Mr. Right #1 cared that I slept with him roomie and it's not something that I'm planning on bringing up anytime soon. If anything, I think he might have been okay with it because after I was destroyed as a person his roomie took care of me in a way that I needed.
And that wraps up the question portion of the night!!!

For those of you who are hockey fans you're aware that we just had the NHL All Star break, seriously its my favorite time of the season. I swear players almost pray that they DON'T get nominated just so they can have a little vacation. We had tons of fun in the sun albeit short; it was still much needed. Who doesn't love sun, sand, ocean and fucking your brains out. I've been super diligent about popping my birth control. Never mind me being able to not handle that little present; I think my family would disown me/potentially die from any more shock. Plus, in the hockey world just like planning your weddings (99% of the players get married in the summer cause it's the off season) most of the women plan on getting knocked up in the fall (Oct, Nov, Dec) so you can pop out the kid in the summer (June, July, Aug) that way Hubby can help out with the baby. I can't get pregnant now that would throw me under the bus and have me having a kid at the start of the hockey season during training camp and that would be REALLY stressful for everyone involved. Ahhhh just thinking about it makes my entire body tense up and I instantly want to google chastity belts! Then I remember how much I love my hubby (eeeek) fucking me and the world seems a little less stressful.... Oh sun, where have you gone? I miss All Star Break...